Spending our whole life with someone is not as easy as it seems. There are many complications in every relationship. Dive into the article to know how to manage your personal relationship with valuable advice by Life Coach Ritu Singal.
Why is Advice on Relationships Important?Here are some facts and data
Luxembourg: has the highest divorce rate in the world with 87%, where in
India: comes last, with the least amount of divorce rate in the world with only 1%
13 marriages out of 1000 end up with divorce, which makes the statistic less than 1 percent.
Yay, for India, right? Well, not really.
In India, a failed relationship or marriage is not the same as a divorce. So just the lack of divorce doesn’t mean all is well in the relationship or even marriage department.
For the family's reputation to ‘log kya kahenge’, many people resort to using any possible way to avoid the unthinkable.
They compromise Relationship Problems. But in most cases, it is fundamentally worse for the woman involved. With several factors, financial dependability on men, lack of access to legal recourse, and Silencing through domestic abuse, they are just a few names in a thousand examples of male domination in Indian society.
Don't think it is a rural thing, it happens in metro cities more.
So, it’s way, way important to choose or maintain your relationship smartly, happy and trust is must.
Relationship is made with both man and women, so here are Relationship Advice for Women as well as Relationship Advice for Men:
Opposites attract, but it may be stuck in the long run. It is better to be as similar as possible, and in any case to share the same priorities in existence, the same life goals.
We need security, we want others to take care of us and respond positively if we need help and support. It is therefore an advantage to be with someone who knows your world and aspires to the same things as you.
Start understanding their life cycle from morning to night, ASK: why are you sad? What do you think and put yourself in His/Her position, it will help you to feel, how that person feels? It will reduce Relationship Problems between you both.
What you especially shouldn't do - and yet most do - is tried to change your partner. The more people have changed, the more they have given up on their partner, and the unhappy they are.
If you feel that you have to change for your partner because he or she does not accept you as you are, you will be miserable.
Conversely, if you try to change your partner, you send him the message that you do not like him as he is or as she is. It is only if he is 100% sure of your love and if he feels that you understand him that he will be ready to accept things from you, that he will know that you only want to help him.
The ideal is that you adopt each other's features to overcome Relationship Problems. Your partner may have these qualities that you want to acquire and can be an example for you and strengthen you in your qualities.
We should encourage the potential of each. Helping each other provides well-being and strengthens ties.
You feel secure in your relationship and you know that your partner is there for you, even - above all! - When you are in a vulnerable situation. If you let your partner assume that you have a secret, you become suspicious and unreliable, whether or not there is a secret.
If you keep a secret, you implicitly say "I don't trust you enough". It damages confidence.
Studies even show that people who can control themselves are less sensitive to the temptations of other potential partners. Another good way to control yourself: if your partner is a little pissed off at you and says harsh things to you, respond calmly, and avoid climbing.
Most people say they would never forgive a deception, but in the end, when that happens, couples often stay together, for example, because the other has shown sincere remorse. Or because the cheated partner is more forgiving than the other imagined. Or because he realized that leaving his partner would be even more difficult. But the trust essential to your relationship to overcome Relationship Problems.
If you feel grateful for your relationship, if you know it is good for you, you must do your best to maintain it. You will do this by taking care of your partner, maintaining your appointments, avoiding arguments, etc.
One of the most important needs is to feel understood. Give the other person the feeling that you are not with him despite his shortcomings, but because of them. Relationships have good and bad days, conflicts are inevitable.
Accepting each other, even when you are stressed or cranky, forgiving yourself, and doing well are signs that you care about the relationship, even in difficult times. Everything you can do to achieve this contributes to a good relationship.
No one can stop loving; it's just an expression of love. It could be due to many reasons, but the common one is:
Realization of Importance
When we know that she or he is mine and this is our routine, after some time that person starts taking you for granted.
Relationship Advice for Men: you must be thankful to others that whatever I am, it's because of other's sacrifice. The sacrifice of a dream or anything.
Identify similarities and differences, dreams, and expectations and listen to each other, so you can compromise and consider solutions.
If you admire each other, you will be happier. It works just like recognition. But it does not take too much admiration in one direction, because it can unbalance the relationship.
As Your Conflict Resolution Coach and Life Coach - Ritu Singal
I advise you with an exercise, end your day by talking about how you both felt today, sad, happy, listen, and try to understand. It will work for sure.
And also watch movies like Thappad, Movie which is a good real-life example for the husband and wife relationship.
